Baby Shower

I had my baby shower!!!Yaaaa!!!
It was a surprise party from our friends..It was the first surprise party I had in my life... n man wasn't it a blast!! I really I think my daughter is our luck charm :)
I so wanted a baby shower..this week only I was asking hubs on how it happens at his place n all. But he said they don't have that custom :( I know how gala it happens in south.. My sis was initially planning to come down my place and do the baby shower, but she couldn't :( So I was hopeless that I wont be getting a baby shower. Since this place is new for me plus with my poor social skill (as hubs call it) I didn't even had a inch of hope... But our friends, mostly hubs colleague's wife, planned it. They said its a normal get together and when asked what should I get they said not a thing... But still I made kheer and took it! But when I saw the cake.. I was blown away. Though I was dry eyed, in my heart I was weeping my happy tears.. and so wanted to kiss those gals :) The Cake..Wow is the only word... One of the gals had done the decorations on it. It was a huge round bed with a pretty yellow sheet with green dots. In the center was a bassinet with a baby wrapped in an orange blanket. Also there was brown teddy!!! It was the most beautiful cake i have ever seen...Umm wasn't I one lucky mommy :) So now I kinda screaming n telling everyone that I too had my baby shower :):):)

Breakpoint!!?

Its been 1 yr and 2.5 months since my marriage...but still my parents are not OK with that. So vat do i do..as a concerned daughter i keep checking with them, calling them. But i do this all time not by myself.. I have my hubs and sis who keep pushing me to do that...Every time I call them they don't speak with me n I also understand that. Everybody has the right of choice the same way I had mine when I married. Also I think my parents are not going to change their mind and think that this is the last time. But somehow r other again I get convinced of calling them again. Actually I don't regret that I made a selfish decision, but I am very happy with it. I wont say its a rosy life I picked..but I know its thorns also n I am happy with it. I am a selfish person n in saying so what. Why should I keep punishing myself n my parents again n again.. I feel that I should let go. I always known that I am not good and convincing and known that my parents never gonna see the right in the decision I took. But with some bizarre hope I keep thinking of convincing.. But I know for sure this wont go on, one or other I am gonna have enough and say that's it. Let all go in our own ways... Just dunno when that day i going to come.

Pleasures of Pregnancy

ok... so life took the unexpected bend and here I am sitting at home cos of it!! What's next. Since I am pregnant nobody is ready to give me work for short duration of 3 months, they only have work for minimum 6 months.. otherwise I might have to relocate to somewhere else. Relocation means I & my hubs have to live apart, which is not ok with me or with him. So what next! I am at home.. as of now its good to be at home as it feels like a summer vacation :) which I got after a real long time of 5 years!! So may be I'll get some work for the next 3 months or I wont, but I am not complaining. As of now I am all happy to be at home n enjoy my babies kicks.. She is quite entertaining... its more like boxing punches the ones she give from inside :). So can I say my wishes came true :) Psst... hubs will have heart attack if he reads this ;)