Contraception....it's the next hushed up topic after sex. But thanks to today's media, t.v., Internet...sex has become an overrated topic. But the same media seems to have forgotten to hype up the contraceptives too.. Anyway...
During college days after reading too many Sidney Sheldon's n jack Collins.. I used to pride myself with my 'sex' knowledge but never knew or aware of the c word. After marriage happened was so excited to start family so never cared for c word. Within the first year of marriage nunu came along n got busy with baby stuff. Soon after her first bday became Peggy again! This time it was a shocker... Barely was I managing one kid and with that another one! That's when ppl start asking about the c word... Before no one educate you but they somehow except u to be a expert as soon as u start having sex...but I should have learnt it since I am the sufferer.
So anyway after chintu, within a month went back to the doc and checked on the c word options. Since mine was normal delivery doc suggested copper T. She said no side effects n pain free n basically sold it to me. Within year I was having heavy bleedings n bloated body. Rather than doubling my weight during pregnancy I had doubled it after. When I went back, then she says that 'some people' tends to have these effects...
Then I started with OCP pills since going under knife with small kids was not an option for me. When I started pills she said no effects and I can safely take it till I am 35.
It's been two years now...as such no effects, but u read in p papers about it probable link to cancer n that's scares you.
Condoms are out since I can't trust my hubs on this...since if anything goes wrong i will be one to bear it!
Surgeries are out since they are scary.
Now when I ask people for ideas...they give a look saying after two kids why are u still active n start giving advice on absistance
So now at 32 I am waiting for menopause so that I can enjoy my s life!
During college days after reading too many Sidney Sheldon's n jack Collins.. I used to pride myself with my 'sex' knowledge but never knew or aware of the c word. After marriage happened was so excited to start family so never cared for c word. Within the first year of marriage nunu came along n got busy with baby stuff. Soon after her first bday became Peggy again! This time it was a shocker... Barely was I managing one kid and with that another one! That's when ppl start asking about the c word... Before no one educate you but they somehow except u to be a expert as soon as u start having sex...but I should have learnt it since I am the sufferer.
So anyway after chintu, within a month went back to the doc and checked on the c word options. Since mine was normal delivery doc suggested copper T. She said no side effects n pain free n basically sold it to me. Within year I was having heavy bleedings n bloated body. Rather than doubling my weight during pregnancy I had doubled it after. When I went back, then she says that 'some people' tends to have these effects...
Then I started with OCP pills since going under knife with small kids was not an option for me. When I started pills she said no effects and I can safely take it till I am 35.
It's been two years now...as such no effects, but u read in p papers about it probable link to cancer n that's scares you.
Condoms are out since I can't trust my hubs on this...since if anything goes wrong i will be one to bear it!
Surgeries are out since they are scary.
Now when I ask people for ideas...they give a look saying after two kids why are u still active n start giving advice on absistance
So now at 32 I am waiting for menopause so that I can enjoy my s life!
